I don't see how I'm defending non-masculine men, nor was that my intention. I was advocating masculinity and acknowledging the double-standard. I got a bit sidetracked because, as masculinity and feminism are two different things, I am tired of feminists implementing more and more double standards into society (I agree with what you said, I am tired of ideas like "men are deemed undeserving of help simply because they need it", how so many people in society seem to be bending over backwards to protect women from negative consequences of reality and the nature of divorce courts").