Yeah, Christian philosophy- fine for men, less fine for women. Paul said that Chrisitan women should accept their husbands as their masters, and probaly turn their other cheek when they are beaten by their husband, even if he is about to beat you to deahth (because, as much as I remeber, even in this case there is no exception for the "cheek" thing. Being a woman, the new Testament is not a great source of inspiration for me One of the rare exceptions is John 1,1 in the original Greek and a few other things. The rest you can pretty much forget when you are a woman.