As well as when parents stopped raising their own kids and started expecting other people, cell phones, social media, television, and video games to do THEIR JOB for them. Bringing another human being into the world in this day and age is a choice. It's not some mystery or magic, it's a choice that is made and if someone chooses to bring another human being into this world, the responcibility of raising that kid belongs to THEM, no one else. That child is their first responsibility each and every moment until that kid reaches age 18. If that's too much for them then they have zero business being parents.