A LOVING MOTHER DOES NOT GIVE HER DAUGHTER ADVICE BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE MEAN OR CONTROL HER. SHE WANTS THE BEST FOR HER DAUGHTER. SO TOO DOES THE BIBLE TELL US TO DO AND NOT DO THINGS FOR OUR OWN GOOD (AND THE GOOD OF OTHERS WE COULD EITHER HARM OR HELP) "IF YE KNOW THESE THINGS, HAPPY ARE YE IF YE DO THEM." JOHN 13:17