what i say if someone wants me to do something that only helps their own good

..adding to that: misearables will go away and not want to do anything with you.

Exactly... I know people that will keep suggesting things that only benefit themselves...

your philosphy is in error. if you base your life trying to please others you live in MISERY. Misery loves company. T get out of it, aim @ pleasin GOD. Then you SHALL be HAPPY, and those " la miserables" will call you ARROGANT, because you are IN JOY, and in-joy life.

okay, don't you think i know this already?

that's why. There is NOTHING NEW under the SUN. If you could NOT get it, I would NOT have SAID IT. CONFIRMATION is PROVIDED because YOU NEEDed IT.

ugh..... i'm done with this.........