I actually re-read your comments more than a dozen times so as not to misinterpret your tone, and so that I could craft a reply that seemed intelligent.
I am a 46 year old man. A "good guy finishes last" kinda guy. A tall, somewhat shy, intelligent Air Force Veteran.
I have been criminally sucker punched hard enough to lose a front tooth. I have had a psychologically unbalanced ex-gf feel that it was within her right to throw tantrums and punch me in the face while I'm driving.
And most recently my 18 year old "step-son" snapped and hit me 5 times. No apologies, only excuses. And I had to ask the prosecutor to reduce the charge so that he is not shackled so he can find a job and move on.
I have accidentally made a social comment on your thread for which I apologize. (Albeit memes that feature yelling and slapping in comedic and cartoonist ways). I was only trying to raise my hand to show her support, and in some way give myself a little voice.