Wow! I'm tongue-tied!
In my family we (this means statistically also for me in some years/decades) have problems with cancer. Thanks godness I'm not a woman, because women in my family have a very high risk of breast cancer (and if I had a daughter, she'd have it as well).
I hope you'll get through this hard time without bigger problems (this also will be a high burden to your family). Keep the faith!