Actual doctor in meme. The real Patch Adams.
I had open heart surgery 8 years ago. Ended up with an artificial valve. My surgeon was somewhat surprised I didn't ask more questions. I told him he went to school for heart surgery, I didn't. I had to put faith in him. He is the best.
In my family, we have one medical professional: my sister is a nurse. When it came time to decide what to do about Mom, we turned to her to make the decision. Well, to help usake the decision none of us wanted to make. The hardest decision any of us could ever make. But she was able to express Mom wasn't with us any longer. Only the shell remained.