nooo I don't want to talk about it, I'll get upset. I've needed and my family has needed legit urgent care a few times and people have been ahead of me for absolutely STUPID or preventative reasons and when lives are on the line it's infuriating. Or when I see someone in pieces and someone's in front of them with a damn cold. It just ... it gets a very deep personal nerve. So I completely understand where you're coming from 100% and when your loved one may actually be in danger and loved-one instincts kick in, ... it's just .... I don't want to talk about it cuz yeah. I know I've been there more than once and I know. I'm sorry. I'm sorry you had to be there. Our system shouldn't tolerate it. We should be better than that.
If it was something preventative or non-imminent they need to get the hell out. That's so stupid and insulting to everyone else there. :( :( but yea again the system isn't built right so those things are allowed to happen.
Ideally, like in our state, there are normal doctor's offices that are like "emergency-whatever" doctor's offices where you aren't clogging up the damn ER like an idiot for the waaah I have a cough while other people are freaking bleeding out, broken bones, etc.. see, this's why I can't talk about it. I take this stuff very personally. It's important to me and the system just isn't robust enough. I'm really sorry.