Actually her looks aren't the kind I'm attracted to. We just have a good time bullshitting with each other (and her office is buried in the building so it's definitely neutral). I'm the only guy who can talk to her one-on-one without getting intimidated, and I can talk about personal stuff with her and get her honest feedback, and indeed affection. And even if this is a cliche: she plays with her hair the whole time so I know she is 'there'. I've asked her out for a drink and she's considered it, but I know she wants to make her relationship work. If nothing happens I'm honestly good with being the ear. She's decent and that's what I like most about her. She wants what's best for me - she didn't like my last girlfriend and she was right. There's a connection beyond me being the mooning guy.
Thanks for the advice. Enjoy your memes and comments.