"A real man would never give up on his familly for another woman .?"

The only excuse for divorce is if your partner cheats. The only reason I would divorce my wife.

You do realize some people have very happy marriages and relationships without monogamy? It's a matter of trust going into the relationship; if parties agree to be monogamous that's fine and likewise if not.

Unfaithfulness may be the only deal-breaker for you, but for many women - especially those being verbally and physically abused by their (perhaps sexually faithful) husbands - there are worse things than infidelity. When relationships become physically abusive, psychologically traumatic, or mentally and emotionally "toxic," it is time to part ways and file the paperwork. If you want to try treatment for substance abuse or anger issues, or go to marriage counseling, by all means give it a shot. But you should never feel obligated to remain in a dangerous, volatile, untenable situation. You should never feel trapped or like you don't have any other options. And one of the worst things you can do is pretend that things are fine, "for the sake of the children." Children do not want parents who hate each other, who shout and scream and fight. They do not want to wake up everyday into a home life that is characterized by a perpetual, all-pervasive psychological tension, brimming just below the surface, waiting to snap or erupt. We all need peace, safety, and stability. The status quo does not necessarily give us that.

I thought I read that, even in the case of lots of screaming, children still do better than with divorce. Of course it would be up to interpretation. ///// My father was not abusive to my mother & said he was faithful to her, but was a child molester...my mom was in denial but I think that would be biblical grounds for divorce. My sisters very seriously have been messed up, and I was thinking of suicide by age 7 or 8. IMO he should have gone to prison & been divorced. Otherwise, I believe there should be separation in most abusive situations until there is resolution. (Ideally)

You may be right. It is not a topic I've truly studied in any depth. I'm simply going off of my own intuition. In any case, I think some people still put way too much into the significance and meaning of marriage. Sometimes, divorce is simply the best of the options. Separation, in the case of abuse, should be absolutely mandatory.

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Women abuse also, as in this case, but if BOTH people have a bare spark to work on it--& do--the marriage can probably be saved eventually. My wife of 35 years & I both decided it was worth it & the Lord helped us. We spent much time separated & each of us had to confront our own baggage. Now we have a wonderful relationship. But sometimes one or both persons refuse, and you can't control their choices.