AND BARACK AND I WERE RAISED WITH SO MANY OF THE SAME VALUES; THAT YOU WORK HARD FOR WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE; THAT YOUR WORD IS YOUR BOND AND YOU DO WHAT YOU SAY YOU'RE GOING TO DO; THAT YOU TREAT PEOPLE WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT, EVEN IF YOU DON'T KNOW THEM, AND EVEN IF YOU DON'T AGREE WITH THEM