The Jews and the Amish and heck even the SBC all have rules and regulations that have to do with their faith. That is what is known as "organized religion". However, those regulations do not require that people outside the faith adhere to them. Those are regulations that govern what goes on within the church. People, of their own free will, either adhere to them or do not. Also, there is nothing in any of those regulations that would cause bodily harm to another person. It is not, as you say, "horseshit".
Organized religion gets a bad rap. Anytime you have a group of people with similar beliefs in one place ... organization will occur. As well it should to some degree. There can clearly be abuse but ... organization is inevitable. People tend to organize things.
The Christian Bible does not condone killing nonbelievers. There were certainly wars in the Bible but at no point did the prophets or leaders or Christ condone or encourage killing ... murdering ... others. Read for context not to prove the opinion you've already decided upon.
Funny how Islam is called a religion of peace but their followers are taught to hate, taught to lie, taught to rape, taught to kill non-believers. They are taught that sex with children is acceptable. They are taught to kill homosexuals.
Christianity is called a bigoted, hateful religion but its followers are taught virtues: to love, to be patient, to minister to other's needs, to be meek, to show mercy, to share their faith, turn the other cheek. We are taught to cherish what is innocent and precious and if someone is living a life that is in contradiction to our faith we do not associate with them. Not to kill them.
The Bible tells us that in these days that people will see good as evil and evil as good. But, even knowing, I think it is still shocking to see it in action. We want to believe that if you can just share things, in the right way, people will see the truth. There is a line I used to quote all the time when I was younger by The Shamen, "If the truth can be told, so as to be understood, it will be believed." My heart still wants to believe that. But it has been proven time and again ... that just is not true. Presentation and desire for others to see is not enough. It will always ultimately be up to them to see or not see. It is heartbreaking and frustrating though when it doesn't happen. It is hard to be patient. And hard to know some will ALWAYS reject truth.