This meme implies that if they let you do whatever you want with your body, you'll have sex with them. If YOU choose to be sexually active (your body, your choice) then birth control is yours and your partners responsibility. You should pay for it (most political arguments are not about if it's allowed, but who should have to pay). Maternity leave options vary by state. Most employers will let you take time off, but you don't get paid for NOT WORKING. When you choose to have a child that is something to take into consideration (for the couple of months a doctor will typically keep you of for medical reasons, in most states you will be eligible for temporary disability). As for SINGLE motherhood, try being selective about your partner. Be in a stable relationship before having sexual activity and use birth control or condoms until you AND YOUR PARTNER are ready for children.