You sound like a certain AUSTRIAN guy but with Christians. As an Atheist I stopped focusing on Christianity years back when Islam became the most destructive thing in the west - small numbers you could deal with in the crime stats and still feel hopeful (in my country ethnicity is published, ouch).
When realizing this, I then needed to learn how that could be, cos we might be doing something wrong. But nope, the underlying toxicity I learned about was mainly from good Muslims' own testimony/articles, and deeply ingrained in the militantly aggressive social control practiced and religiously ordained in the communities as well.
The day Muslims have their own Reformation (which many Muslims cry for) their Imams get less influential, and things can potentially turn around
