Why not just ban him permanently? Its not like he'll ever stop being himself. His problem with me is not that I ' took down one of his memes', his problem is that I'm not doing what he HE wants me to do. His 'love' for me or whatever affection he is capable of is so self-centred in nature that to him, I'm nothing more than a toy to be picked up and put down wherever he sees fit.
It all boils down to him being a major narcissist and projecting that onto me.