Ok, simple starter advice. You want upvotes? You give upvotes.
Would you upvote somebody who isn't upvoting you? Neither does anybody else on this site.
I upvoted your meme. You didn't upvote my comment. So now I didn't upvote your reply. That's 30 points each right there.
You're not going to collect 10,000 points by being stingy with giving away free points.
