I've followed several trans people on youtube to learn and sympathize with - ones who wouldn't wish this way of feeling on anyone. That you are dependent on comprehensive scientific intervention to feel right feels very unnatural for them.
It's not the feelings that are invalid scientifically, it's the conclusions of those feelings, and the ideologs taking harmful advantage of it through affirming therapy that creates detransitioners and lawsuits.
I listen to both expanded Biology and Gender Theorists. Transgenderism is illegitimate bc you mix gender norms and expression with the change of pronouns. People didn't do that in the gender bending 80s. But transsexuals are legit, and usually given a Syndrome when they are discovered close to always bc they go to the doctor with fertility problems and a DNA test from their mother is taken (Forbes info that is used for Diabetes research somehow).
YOU ought to educate yourself and see all perspectives. When you've done that, you're bound to disagree with both the trans movement and Conservatives