Ok so I was reading the comments on this image and I got some stuff to add. I want to start by saying that Christianity’s goal is not merely to get you to heaven. That’s not the point, if god wanted that he could have done a number of different things, the most extreme of which would be would simply be revoking our free will. Since we have free will we know what God really cares about us not our physical condition but rather that of our spiritual condition. Forgiveness is more than letting go. Essentially forgiveness is the human equivalent of a reboot button. Forgiveness has a few goals. It is to get rid of your feelings of anguish, and anger. Gods’ goal is to give you “ peace beyond understanding “ and forgiveness is the act of admitting that you will not longer hold on to a terrible action of another human. It gives you peace. But that’s not the end, God doesn’t just want you to have peace but rather he wants that for all of his creation. Forgiveness then is saying to God, “ I am not the Judge of this world, you are. You have decided that peace for all even though they do evil is the way and maybe I don’t agree but I want to agree, so help me to understand your way will and how to carry it out”. So can you forgive someone no matter what they did. Not only can you but you must. It is the only cure to the human condition. Love is forgiveness and God is love therefore to forgive to be one with God. God is not merely about the next life because he sees no next life. You live and you “die” and then keep living. So did you really die at all, no you simply moved. In the knowledge of this God cares about the peace in our souls, and through that peace we go to heaven, not the other way around