Hmmm... Well, don't force yourself - just take your time and, when you're ready, I'm sure you'll know (✿◡‿◡)
For when you *do* plan to come out, however, I did actually give somebody else advice on the same subject. Hence, if you want some advice, just check out my comments regarding coming out, linked here:
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