nice!
uhh, something about being careful about how much you trust people, yada yada, i put my trust and someone broke it, yada yada, (do not regard the aforementioned statement) uhh, yeah, make sure to love him!
gender is kinda a different story, you ideally would like people to not misgender you, so take that with what you will.
but yeah, just be cautious with timing on talking about stuff.