Feminist got triggered after I told that to her, she was an able bodied woman to.

How does her wish for women to have the ability to do any "mens" work equate to her needing to join the military? That's like saying a man that wants equal marriage rights for all sexes needs to marry another man.

The whole argument we had was based on how she wanted equal work with men. So I told her "Why not join the military, pretty sure that's equal work with men."

She lost it because I had made an inappropriate statement about women are oppressed when joining the Military.