My reply to that is simple. The genders are not equal. They both are stronger than the other in certain areas, equal certain areas and weaker certain areas. I can call my self a pistachio, taco, astronaut, bicycle whatever...I'm not. If u say I'm a bicycle are you gonna ride me? A pistachio, eat me? Astronaut pay me to go to the moon? Like a lot of men, I can see. Beauty, appeal, sexiness, in all sorts of women.tall short fat skinny makeup no makeup boring party animal...whatever. it's impossible to get a boner for it. If you can, knock yourself out. Also strictly from a platonic non sexual way...very hard to carry on a serious intelligent conversation with a confused person in a silly costume.