You obviously care too much. I'm not intimidated by skin color. I spent my young adulthood studying and working in Asia and Latin America. I speak 3 languages, and I know what true discrimination feels like. A person's race is part of their culture and identity. It is not something to be ashamed of, or hidden. He was a big black man, if a non racist person reads that, it gives them an image. If a racist reads it, they focus on the fact that he was black.