No, you're racist because you can't understand what it's like to worry about that, and don't even try. We usually manage to sympathize with "white" people who worry that we might attack them or something because of what they've been taught. We don't get the same sympathy from you. So after awhile we learn not to expect it. A person who has an anomic (automatically heartless) reaction to an ethnic "other" is a racist. If you want a trophy for not being a murderer or something, that just makes you a "magnanimous" type. Normally, I wouldn't bother to go that deep, but in light of recent events, the time for pulling punches on this matter is over. Hypocrisy is what got us here. Honesty is the only way out.