Whenever you add "phobe" to something (homo, xeno, etc) you've lost the argument. Just like shouting "racist". It is name calling, pure and simple, and that's all you've got. By saying "phobe" you're implying that a person is afraid of the subject. Nothing could be further from the truth. No matter the topic, personally, I am not "afraid" of it, I just don't like it. It's not wrong or illegal to not like something. Try instead to find out the facts and then debate them.