Or perhaps a woman should just have the ambition to take care of herself, than she doesn't need to concern herself or hitch herself to a man's "5 year" plan.

Nobody is suggesting being a gold digger....women who do that are just lazy. People always misunderstand that statement. If a woman comes to the table with her ambition and a plan for her life then she should not be settling for a man that is not bringing the same thing to the table.

They are not misunderstanding the meme, they are reading what it communicates. The meme communicates that ladies should have a plan, than immediately jumps to not settling for a man that doesn't have a five year plan. Suggesting the ladies plan is to fix herself to an ambitious man. Rather than finding a man that matches her ambition. It's always interesting seeing what people concider "settling".

In your mind it does! Nowhere on the quote does it say anything about goal digging. Thus the reason Beyonce's picture was chosen....she has her own money and she made sure that she married a man with his own money. And yes a woman should made sure she is with an ambitious man (Jay Z). If you had a daughter with ambition would you want her with a lazy bum? Think....

I would want her to be happy, that's all.

HAPPINESS IS BEAUTIFUL. BUT LETS NOT PRETEND LIKE THIS WORLD DOESN'T OPERATE ON MONEY. SHE WONT BE TOO HAPPY WITH A DEADBEAT THAT HAS NO JOB AND NO MOTIVATION TO GET ONE! GOD DID NOT PUT US HERE TO JUST BE BORN AND DIE....

Well first there is no evidence that God put us here at all. Also how did we go from talking about an ambitious go-getter to an unemployed dead beat. I also find it funny that you would think persons in poverty can't be too happy in a relationship. Props on the all caps though, it definitely gave your argument more credibility. Lol

The same way we started having this stupid conversation in the first place.