How about the mayors who refuse to enforce immigration law in their "sanctuary" cities? How about Eric Holder refusing to enforce the Defense of Marriage Act because he disagreed with it? How about the Gay Bakery that refuses to bake cakes for heterosexual couples?
The flight attendant had a workable accomodation: another attendant provided the drink to the customer. Kim Davis could have let a deputy sign the marriage licenses, but chose to keep denying them, instead.