You don't respect that I am religious, otherwise you won't force me to accept your lifestyle choice. Trying to keep marriage between a man and a woman is not stating how others should live their lives. We can't force people to not be gay, but we should be allowed to dictate what is acceptable in our religious practices. And once again marriage is a religious practice between one man, one woman, and God. It has absolutely nothing to do with the government. Governments of the past saw that families that were comprised of a man and a woman, who are genetically capable of having kids (unlike homosexual couples who don't have the right sexual organs to conceive a child together), provide benefits to the communities they are a part of by helping them grow. That is why the governments started giving benefits to those who got married, evidence marriage did not start with the government since benefits were not always given to married couples. Then when people either didn't want to get married in a religious fashion, or were not able to because they are gay, civil unions were created in order to allow those people to join in a legal union based off the government and given certain rights that married couples got. If those couples wanted to get more rights more equal to what married couple received, they could file paperwork. But if a same sex couple cannot provide the same benefits to a community that a straight couple can, then why would the governments want to give them all the same rights?
BTW, free will was given to us by God our Creator, not the government. And the country was founded off of the laws of Nature and of Natures God, not free will.
Although I can't expect everyone to believe the same things I do, and I never stated that I do, the same should go for you. Forcing religious people to accept same sex marriage is forcing us to change our beliefs in saying that homosexuality is not a sin. So really, who is forcing who to do what here? Religious people are just trying to keep their religious practices, it is the LGBT community that is forcing their beliefs onto religious people.