Most women from about the age 13 to about early 30's, women sometimes have a low self esteem level. The jerks and douchebags that have tons of girlfriends have what most girls "want"... It doesn't matter what a nice guy has to offer, a girl will go to any douche that call them pretty and pretend to like them, even thought most of the time, they don't mean it. That's the end of my shpeel. (By the way, just because some girls go for the jocks and douches, doesn't mean you should become one of them. There are many fish in the sea. Be nice :)