I seriously don't understand why a lot of guys think we have to be jerks in order to get a girl to swoon over us. I am a gentlemen and I can assure you while I don't have a girlfriend, I have had more feminine attraction to me not because I'm rude and mean to girls but because I treat them like they ought to be treated....LIKE A WOMAN! Sorry, not mad at you. I just feel very strong about this issue.