I know that you are trying to help. But recommending self-help books that you yourself have not read is insulting. Especially when you are a neet. You are basically saying "Your life sucks so badly that I, someone with no job, education, or prospects, can figure out which books you should read to fix it without even having read them. You are so dumb for not thinking of reading these books yourself. I don't need to read them. I can imagine what they say. I am just that awesome."