an apagirl/apaboy/apagender is where you don't care about your pronouns so you will go by she/he/they, etc. apaboy and apagirl is where you still have a connection to a certain gender but also dont care about your pronouns if that explains it :)
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oh, and my version of these flags is you are those, but have a pronoun preference!! hope that helps!!