Exactly.
Speaking hypothetically, if dudes want to put on pink wigs, high heels, and dresses, I DON'T CARE, as long as they're not interfering with whatever I'm doing.
But if they create a situation that introduces possible gender confusion, they should be mature enough, intelligent enough, and real enough to understand that situation was something they manufactured.
Unfortunately, there's a shocking lack of maturity, intelligence, and realism among the loons right now.