First off, “gee” is not blasphemous, thank you very much. Secondly, your hypocrisy is telling others to be Christian, a person of love and kindness, while actively hating the very people you should be loving.
When I was at Mass a few months back, the liturgy included a message about judging and hypocrisy; It really stuck with me, and while I can’t remember it fully, it was essentially “before removing the splinter in your brother’s eye, remove the beam in your own.”