change comes from within. if you truly want to change, you will change your actions in a way that you think will make people not see you as cringe.
if it fails, change up your methodology.
the one thing you have is time.
honestly i already am less hated than i used to be like a week ago, like the worst i get when i post those “how well known am i?” memes is near 8 instead of 0-5 like it used to be