No I'm not giving context for any of these, if you don't already know you're just proving the point

But we aren't animals

Humans are technically animals.

And by the way, a hermaphrodite is an intersex human. In recent times, some stupid toddlers on TikTok (and maybe other social media apps) pretending to be adults ruled it a slur but, ya do realize more hermaphrodites use the word "hermaphrodite" to refer to themselves than "intersex"? Source: Trust me >:).

I meant hermaphrodite as in an animal that can change its own gender/has multiple genders (like clownfish and snails) but that works too

These situations are not the same as with humans, humans are designed to reproduce heterosexually, while some animals are designed to be homosexual, it is not a choice to them, it is a fact of life for them.