its not the odd obsessions, just the way people are so mean when its for no good reason to others is frustrating
i do agree its quite naive to hope for that but i wish we could be nice to each other, and if not, communicate it privately instead of trying to make it everyone else's problem, though again it's not realistic
just the malice carried and normalized on here and other sites is terrible, I won't say I haven't hated people on here, bc i defintely have, i just dont understand why everything has to always be so negative, though perhaps it's just how we are