basically this started years ago when my grandma died, and my family on my moms side visited each other less and less, eventually we stopped seeing each other, 2 weeks ago my grandpa came to the shop and he wanted to take me out to lunch bc he missed me, we went out along with my dad and my grandpas girlfriend, and my dad made me visiting my family in my moms side a secret, today my dad told my mom about visiting my family, this morning she asked me why am I doing it, eventually it lead to me saying my dad told me to keep it a secret (me and my dad both thought my mom would get mad so we kept ts a secret) basically she got mad at me and my dad not for visiting her family, but for keeping it a secret, last time I saw her when she was driving on her way to work she was lookin through some legal site to transfer all custody of me to my dad, she told me that she feels like as if she can’t trust me anymore on a loyalty level, but honestly, if my mom took me out for a family visit every other weekend, ts wouldn’t have happened, I think she might transfer custoday, and she said that I won’t be working at the store anymore when I ask about my checks that get mailed, as much as I’ll miss my mother IF we leave, I’m fine if I can keep the job and if she sends me a plate of her food every other weekend, besides, she don’t treat me normally here, I haven’t played video games there for years and despite the amount of benifits phones have and shit, she won’t get me one, I believe me not having a phone will be a good way to not build solid bonds with friends outside of school, so basically I want a phone to
