Breaking down the situations because I nerd
Red would come with more cons than pros because first of all, it would be really embarrassing having a clingy femboy attached to you all the time, second stealing your clothes would be kinda funny but if its repetitive it'll lead to some serious anger
Blue would be the better option here except you wouldn't actually know of it worked because people you know could still hate it, but then again like 90% isn't homophobic, and the second part ti that one implies i dont like a gender and I only hate people who identify as minecraft diamond swords
So in conclusion im taking the blue