*me shaping the pain of losing my children into joy* as the meme says

I dunno what a person feel when they lose a child, cause I'm still 24 and here in my Italy, especially in Sicily, a lot of people of my age still live with their parents due to absence of job, so we can't experience the feeling of have a son or daughter yet. But last day my grandfather had a stroke and i was about to lose him, so now i understood what is losing someone you care about...

I was being sarcastic with my remark but I feel for your pain

From my expierence, it’s not the pain that can hurt when seeing a love one die or in a scary situation it’s the thought of everything you love about them smile, laugh, jokes disappearing never to be seen again. That’s what hurts the most and is scary them not existing anymore

Yeah, it's this the most scariest thing...