Some boys lack so much sense and self-respect that they start dumping out immediately for the sake of love and affection which is never real. Constant reassurance is not love, it is control disguised up as "Anxious attachment style". Which is funny, because I used to be clingy, until I quickly turned to avoidance from constant disappointment, and realization that love indeed blinds us. The same way this guy mours for nothing, I only just learned it faster and now will understand way more and notice patterns. Boys scream for validation, men seek discipline. Very few will understand me.