Hide the Pain Harold

is she against lgbtq

yes

do your parents at least support lgbtq

yes

ok, at least they support lgbtq

good luck bro

Good luck

As what are you coming out

bisexual

I believe in you! No matter what, you have this community to back you up! =D

you dont need to, could be nice to i guess, but like, concider this, does she need to know who you are into before you bring home your romantic(or other) intrest?

I want to but i don't want to. i don't want her to die without knowing this about me but i don't want to ruin the relationship and no longer have that homey feeling when i visit

Well, it may be a safe starting point to just ask on her viewpoint on the subject, altering your approach from there

i just texted her "Just because i'm curious, what is your opinion on LGBTQ people

Well... Y'know... Curious can mean curious on sexuality... Or gender... So like...
Maybe not the best choice of words, but who's gonna know?

How'd it go?

great. she said she respects LGBTQ people and if I have anything to tell her that I should tell her in person

Well, that's amazing, have you told her about yourself yet?

no not yet.

Well, best of luck when that happens, seems like you would be safe enough, but you may need to script your conversation

I never thought of that. i'll write a script tonight

ok. i'll try

I mean, you don't need to write it down if you can remember it, I would just run through the convo in my head

good idea

my strat for coming out is to not directly say that I'm LGBTQ+ but talk like people around me already know so they question everything I'm saying.

or at least IRL

oh golly
Good luck ig!
thats if you ever decide to