First off, thank you to austin who is friends with real him bo for giving me this information, I can't believe I am thanking one of real him bo's friends but the amount of information he gave me is genuinely crazy.
According to these two images, "vama" is apparently a real person on the pizza tower wiki's discord server. On that fandom wiki, Toady was also a user of the wiki, before leaving due to them getting banned. Their account page can be found at https://pizzatower.fandom.com/wiki/User:ToadyTheToad. Notably, that page says that they are male, which contradicts the toady here, who says that they are not only female but a "lesbian". This means that toady is lying about their gender.
According to this, austin posted about finding an account from ToadyTheToad on a website called sketchfab. As soon as the post was made, that account changed its name to "Fnafguy1987". (again, curious how it is "guy" for a user that claims to be a girl.) Then, in memechat when austin confronted "Masqueradess" and not toady about it, "masqueradess" replied AS IF THEY WERE TOADY and said that they had abandoned the account and personally changed the username just to get people to leave them alone. Which is highly suspicious.
https://pizzatower.fandom.com/wiki/Message_Wall:TeystulaTwo?threadId=4400000000000135623&useskin=fandomdesktop
I found a conversation he had on fandom that may have the reason he got banned
Just wanna add on that "toady" (im still not exactly sure) admitted to botting that one ai post on a objection.lol
The only proof I have of this is a screenshot of evidence showing toady logged in but my dumbass self only screenshotted the preview which didn't show anything that indicates she was logged in (I still hate myself for not screenshotting the full thing)