so Saturday I got a haircut and told my barber not to cut the sides of my face bc my mom told me to, he cut them anyway and she got mad bc I'm growing a small beard at 13 years and every time it gets cut it grows back rougher than ever, she told me to go to bed, she didn't let me take a shower or eat and she had the audacity to come into my room and say bad shit about me, calling me a autistic ret*rd apparently saying I'm not that is backtalk to her, long story short we went back and forth, and she said that I depended on her for stuff and if I wanted to eat a plate of food she charges $10, I'll put my food in a bowl thank you, and I mentioned that she has done the same thing with the food and shower privilege last week and she connected it to her starving me, I'm not starving rn I had to sneak slowly past motion detecting cameras in order to heat up 1 slice of pizza, and than took a shower, this happened while she is gone (which is rn)