my siblings were traumatized from my parents arguing. mom blamed me for traumatizing them last night.

Poor kid. I'm sorry. It's not your fault.

it feels like it is.

It's very obviously not unless you're not telling us something.

I feel like maybe it was the tone I used because I can be grumpy when I’m tired? she did ask us to help her clean up and I had to do something that would take a while.

Maybe you were a bit grumpy, but her reaction was completely inappropriate. I'm not against spankings etc when they're warranted but that was not warranted.

hey dude, dont see your life down rn its still going out and probs rn its at its lowest, but soon im sure that it will be better soon

will it? cuz I feel like people say that just to make me feel better or something.

my brother had that moment too, so its gonna happen to everyone

its not your fault. it isnt

oh and another thing? They fought when I was at my band comp. I wasn’t there for that. she’s probably still mad at my dad, so why take it out on me? talk to him instead.

Its very obviously not your fault man, stop beating yourself up.

how do you get traumatized from your parents arguing thats a very normal human thing to do

parental abuse:

Probably talking about a divorce idk

It’s not even close to yo fault Union of South Afribro 🫂🥹✌️❤️🌹