ada. you cant be saying that when there are people like me out here. its insensitive >:(
anyways. disregarding ada.
im not sure how true this statment is, but most people want their crush to be happy. right? bc seeing your crush sad being with you really doesnt help.
so the theoretical best thing one can do is to confess but assure them that you want to see them happy, so you would prefer for them to be with you but you would rather them be happy without you rather than sad with. lingering on this keeps the thought, reducing your mental stability (i know firsthand).
now. we know that this likely wont happen. but being brave can help you get over it sooner whether you are acsepted or not.
now. these are words from someone who isnt a fan of relationships so im likely wrong :P
