I wouldn't say he's completely dumb. I've talked with him a lot, it seems he's mostly misinformed and misguided
so much pent up hatred over something like this
I do think its valid to be pissed, but this is too much
telling you to kys, being transphobic, using slurs, and really just saying random shit you'd see a trump dickrider say in anything against him
and him saying "you cant change his gender" further proves his double-standards, as he continued using your correct pronouns when talking about you and the situation to me (although that was yesterday)
but anyways
I wish you the best. have a good day, I hope you two don't fight at all anymore
and as for Neko, I hope he learns from his mistakes. or at least tries to