Well I do think in general there are things men should do and women should do, gender roles like this are kinda dumb. Sure, we should have balls, but let women be brave too.
Fair point, buuuut...
I've seen dozens if not hundreds of people complaining about how they never pick up on women's signals and realize she's trying to flirt months or years after the fact.
I also just think you should REALLY think before making a first move. Because if you have a good friendship there’s a decent chance they’ll say yes, but if you’re best friends and stuff there’s a very good chance they’ll say yes. Applies to both genders btw