True. However being rude to others isn't how you're supposed to deal with this. That's why people infantilaze it. Because people like you, respond like infants.
"____ IS SO AUTISM CODED-" hey, buddy. it's not cool to infantilize a mental disorder that has made people's quality of life worse. People have to stop acting like autism is silly, autism and ADHD have impacted my life in some really bad ways.